What
kind of alarm clock do you have? Digital, buzz, bells, clock radio? What kind
of alarm clock do you use?
(Disclaimer – I asked Fr. Vic for permission to use this story about
him. I am not ‘ratting on him…”) Fr. Vic sometimes sleeps
through his morning wake up call. He has two alarm clocks, and he sets them
15 minutes apart. He has placed them in the room in such a way that he will
have to get out of bed to turn them off. And apparently, every so often, he
does just that. He will wake up enough to turn each of them off. And then drop
off back to sleep. Though they will wake him up, it will not be enough to WAKE
him up. How effective are your alarm clocks?
Because there are different kind of alarm clocks, aren’t there? There
are the ones that get us up (or don’t) in the mornings. And then there
are the ones that happen during the course of our lives. I had a conversation
with a man who had dropped daughter off at College. He was a salesman. He and
his wife were driving home and were on the road for about 10 minutes after dropping
her off when he pulled over and began to weep inconsolably. “I missed
my daughter’s life”, he said. “I missed my daughter’s
life.” The alarm had gone off, he was awake, and now he had choices to
make about how he would prioritize his time. And he did. And you can bet that
he did not miss the rest of his daughter’s life.
Don’t you wish there were alarm clocks for those kinds of things? Alarms
that would go off when something crucial for our life and our future is happening
so we wouldn’t miss it, wouldn’t sleep through those crucial things?
Something that would buzz or beep or chime or play rousing music, so we are
attentive to the important, and not just the urgent.
Fortunately, we have such an alarm clock. But it is not a very modern technology,
though. It doesn’t beep or buzz or chime. Rather, it comes into our life
as an awareness, a watchfulness in our living. It is called the season of Advent.
And it is meant to be an alarm clock to wake us to the most important things.
Beating swords to plowshares. Turning spears to pruning hooks. Throwing off
the works of darkness. Putting on the Lord Jesus Christ. Advent cries out: Don’t
miss the opportunity to love today. Don’t skip the chance to be reconciled.
Two are in the field, one will be taken, one left. Two are in bed, one will
be taken, one left. Wake up, lest you miss the chance.
The problem with this alarm clock called Advent is that we can still sleep through
it. Someone commented to me about Thanksgiving: “It means the craziness
has begun, and it won’t stop until after Christmas.” And certainly
we can do our Advent like that, as one massive rush to Christmas. But like my
friend, I wonder if we’ll wake up the day after Christmas, and realize
that we missed our lives, we missed what was important for us to be doing.
As we begin this season, let me suggest a few ways to live into this season.
1) Post a picture of an alarm clock by your bathroom light switch, or the one
by the door through which you leave, or on the dashboard of the car. Let it
remind you, as often as you see it, of the call to be AWAKE to what matters.
2) Live with an alarm clock in your head, and in each encounter, each conversation,
ask yourself – is it going off? Is there something crucial to this moment
that I have to be alert to, awake to?
3) With whom do you need to beat your swords into plowshares? Is there a relationship
that needs at least the first step toward reconciliation to be made?
I almost always wake to the alarm that is beside my bed. For that, I am grateful.
These Advent days, I pray for ears to hear those other alarms, those other wake
up calls – to sense the presence and nearness of God in every moment and
in every person. And to let that awareness move me into concrete action, to
prepare the way of the Lord’s coming once again.