When was the last time
you cried: No Fair?
And that is precisely why this story from Jesus is so difficult to understand, for me, and perhaps for many of you. It is not ‘fair’ to give the same wage for differing amounts of work. It is not ‘fair’ for God (the owner of the vineyard) to reward those who did minimum work with the maximum reward. It offends my Kempf-ness…
Yet the problem with the story is not about ‘fairness’ is it? They
got ‘the agreed upon wage’. It was fair. It was just. It was the
agreement. But it was not what they came to expect. The problem that the first
workers got themselves into was all about entitlement, all about special favors,
all about expecting MORE. Surely God will reward the ‘extra’ that
I have done… Like last week’s story of forgiveness, , they were
still in the world of justice, of mathematics, of measuring their love and expecting
God to do the same. They wanted to live in a 7 x world.
With one word, Jesus goes to the heart of their difficulty. “Friend”
I did you no injustice.” Friend. Not worker, not slave, not even brother
or sister, but FRIEND. What I have in store for you is to know that my love
is all you need. And it is not a zero sum game. If you have my love, my day’s
wage, it is enough. And you should rejoice that others know the same love, experience
the same reward. It’s not about competing for relationship – it’s
about rejoicing when good abounds.
But, how do you get your heart to live in that kind of world? How do we expand
our heart to love this generously? Fr. Anthony De Mello tells a story about
two brothers. Both heard the call to serve. The younger left behind family and
friends, left behind the woman he loved and hoped to one day marry, and became
a missionary. He worked for years under tough conditions, and finally, died
from an indigenous disease in the remote country where he was serving. He was
taken to the gates of heaven, where the Father said: Well done good and faithful
servant. Because you have given a thousand talents of service, I give you billion
worth of reward. Enter into my joy!
The older brother ignored the call, married the woman of his dreams, ran a successful
business, raised two kids, occasionally sent money to ‘the poor whom his
brother served.’ He too died, and was taken to the gates of heaven. God
welcomed him and said: Well done, faithful servant. Because you have given ten
talents of service, I give you a billion of reward. Come, and enter into my
joy!
When the younger brother heard his older brother also had gotten into heaven,
he was surprised, but pleased. “If I had it all to do again, knowing what
I know now, I would still live my life exactly how I did. De Mello concludes
by saying: “Good News indeed. A generous God, and a servant who gives
for the sheer joy that love brings to service.
Maybe that is the gospel question to pray into today. If you knew that people who ‘deserved the kingdom’ less than you; who abided less by the rules, who lived not as ‘correctly’ as you are still getting in, would you change anything about how you are living? If the answer is no, then we have good news indeed…
Rules have their place. But, the
older I get, the more grateful I am that God does not play by the rules and
that God is not fair. Because it means that there is hope, even for me…