1909
Charles O'Fallon had a houseparty when I returned
from New York which Mary Semple, Mattie Sproule, and I attended. We three
had become Charles' regular members, with Tom Rutledge, Hal Clark, and
Carl Prescott. Most of the others had married or were out of town for
some reason. For the second time Tom Rutledge made the announcement that
"it was about time some of us got married."
On a cool gloomy day soon after the houseparty
I suffered one of my sick headaches. Mary and Mattie came to my room to
talk over the houseparty. When they were ready to leave I said I felt
better and would go downstairs with them. Father was sitting before the
wood fire in the living room. We sat with him for a while and told him
about a plan we had made for some entertainment for Charles O'Fallon.
He turned to us suddenly and said, "Young ladies (in fact none of
you is young any more), you are letting the years go by spending a great
deal of time with a man who would make a desirable husband for either
one of you." We looked at each other in quiet astonishment. Father
was right in a few ways - family background, social position, and money.
What father did not know was that while Charles was a gracious host and
did everything to make these gatherings enjoyable he had these drawbacks:
he was considered one of the homeliest men in town and he had a vile temper
which he sometimes vented on the men but never on his women guests. However,
these outbursts would sometimes nearly ruin or end a party. Tom Rutledge's
wit and humor usually saved the day. Carl Prescott would go to the piano
and play a popular song. Charles loved his comfortable big house which
he had named Athlone after the old home in Ireland. He liked fun but had
little sense of humor. He was a loyal friend. That was the last houseparty,
for he and Mrs. Overton of Memphis were married in 1910.
My letters to Mr. and Mrs. McKesson after my return
home and again as the holidays approached were full of the joy of that
remarkable trip. I can't remember what I sent them for Christmas but I
am sure it was something they both enjoyed. Hunt Allen and I exchanged
Christmas cards. The McKessons told me about a big family party where
they had seen Hunt Allen and his mother and the Fisks, and that I was
mentioned several times.
Our family gatherings were enjoyable as usual.
Sister Belle and Sank had a New Year's dinner for over sixty people, mostly
family and connections, in the _________ of their Kinsbury Place home.
Dorr & Zeller furnished part of the food and they had a waiter as
well as their housemaid to serve it.
1910 was a big year for the Norvells and for me.
I began again to go to the YWCA. I was asked to go to their headquarters
on Garrison and Lucas Avenues on Thursday evenings to entertain employed
women. Many of them were maids or cooks employed in fine homes and they
had Thursdays off. This large house was given to the YW by "Uncle
Sam Dodd.” I took a streetcar at 7:15 to go there and returned at
10:00 p.m. with perfect safety - something we would not dare do alone
now! One evening in March I took with me an authentic parchment scroll
the Book of Esther and a short outline of Esther. My father had bought
it in Syria when he and mother were in the Holy Land in 1866. In most
synagogues this book is read in March during the Feast of Purim. This
created so much interest that I was asked to repeat the program so they
could ask more people to come and see the scroll and hear my talk. Other
evenings I talked about my travel experiences. One time I took mats for
them to cross stitch. It was interesting work which I kept up till summer.
It threw me with some appreciative women who had had a good meal together
and were given something to think about besides their work. I am glad
I was brought up to like all kinds of people.
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