1901-02
That fall and winter were filled
with my usual activities. I often went horseback riding with my brother-in-law
Sank Norvell. He had been very busy at Simmons Hardware, but Mr. Simmons'
sons were almost out of college and their father wanted then prepared
to take over the business. Sank sometimes would ask me to ride with
him as soon as he could get away from work. We would ride in the park
for an hour or more and talk over his "trouble" or my beaus,
Holliday Wear and John Boyle. On a Saturday we sometimes rode into the
country to the Laughlins who had a lake and a cottage. Sank tried for
a political job, City Counselor, or some civic position - just anything
but hardware. I would tell of my discouragement over my painting. I
went riding with girl friends and driving with Holliday Wear. I attended
the theater with all three of the men who enjoyed that kind of an evening,
Arthur Corbitt (or Corbett?), Holliday Wear, and John Boyle was by far
the most interesting one. However, none of them ever really thrilled
me. I just liked having men friends who I hoped would always be friends.
Christmas holidays cane and went
without anything out of the ordinary. In 1902 mother and I spent a good
deal of time sewing. We had found a good seamstress who came two or
more days a week. I helped make dresses for mother, letting the seamstress
do all the main sewing and hand tucks while I did much of the planning
and fitting. They were happy times. One day my dear mother was so pleased
over a dress I had planned and worked on that she kissed me and said,
"Lucy, you have done more sewing for me than I ever did for you."
One dress we made for me that spring
was a blue chambray. This was a pattern dress we had bought in Switzerland
together in 1899. It had imitation hand embroidered design of Edelweiss
in white at the hem of the long skirt, and other embroidered pieces
for the waist and sleeves. Though we had bought it two years before,
it was in better style now than then. This turned out fairly well and
it was one of my best dresses for the New Orleans visit.
About this time a decision had to
be made about what church mother and I would attend. My father had stopped
going to the Presbyterian church where he was an Elder, and took no
interest in West Presbyterian Church which mama and I sometimes attended.
I wanted to see my friends once more before giving up the old church,
so I went to a picnic with the boys and girls of Dr. Brooks' church
of my childhood. We went to Forest Park which had a hillside of soapstone.
This soft stone was in strata of pink and white, easily broken off.
The boys knocked off pieces with a stick and brought them to a shady
place where we were spreading the lunch. They made hearts and various
objects, cutting the soft stone with a pen knife. Connor Witherspoon
cut a heart for me with a violet on one side which I kept until he married
Mae Houston. Soapstone Hill was completely destroyed when much of Forest
Park was taken for the World's Fair of 1904. May and Vi Houston and
the Bates Girls, Ellen and Bertha, and Nell Fischer were my friends
on this outing. Margaret Grier was a bit older than the others. She
was a beautiful brunette. My brother Leonard was very fond of her. I
think he was on this picnic. Len also liked Elvira Houston. Vi had made
up her mind that she wanted my brother, and he was working hard to rise
in the hardware business. Their friendship went on for a long time until
they married in 1907 (?). I lost track of all the boy friends I had
at the old church except Bob Grier who was a friend of Bert Bushnell.
The one girl I kept up with among those just mentioned was Bertha Bates.
She and I have been friends for over eighty years. She visited me after
I was married and I visited her in Sicily thirty-four years after she
married a charming Sicilian gentleman.
Now I have gone ahead of my story
- so back to the decision mother and I made about church. We attended
West Presbyterian Church which was within walking distance of 5447 Cabanne.
Mother kept up with some of her friends at Dr. Brooks' church who were
interested in the same charities. After a year or two I taught a Sunday
School class at West Presbyterian.