The
Story of My Life
There must have been a lucky star near in or near
Sagittarius on December 4, 1875. On that cold winter day a baby girl was
born to Mary Spottswood Nisbet Matthews and Leonard Matthews. This took
place at Oakland, Missouri, near Kirkwood, in a large yellow stucco house
with deeply slanting roof and gables, a widow’s walk and high brick
chimney. There were wide porches in the three sides of the house, and
one porch over the front door. These had much pretty white cutwork trimmings,
the vogue of the Victorian era. There was a large water tank on top of
the house. It received screened rain water, and a pump in the basement
kept it full so that we had running water in our bathroom and toilet.
Most people had only outside toilets. We had a large two-sided privy _______.
This large house was situated twelve miles west
of St. Louis, Missouri, between the Missouri Pacific and Frisco railroad
tracks. One station was Glendale and the other Oakland. When we went to
town we often drove in a surrey or a spring wagon with two horses, so
in 1875 and the 80’s this, for county life, was what might be called
luxury! Now about that baby girl.
Lucy Matthews
I was born on December 4, 1875, under the constellation
Sagittarius, the seventh child of a seventh child (like John Burroughs).
Whether the number “7” has a luck portent or not I cannot
say. However, as I go on with my tale it may be amusing to call attention
to a few times when that number or a multiple of it turned up. People
born under Sagittarius are supposed to have ups and downs in their lives.
In 1963 my daughter, Mary Levering Chambers Wiese,
has asked me to write the story of my life and family with as many dates
as I can remember, so here goes!
My mother, Mary Spottswood Nisbet, married Leonard
Matthews in St. Louis _______ October 7, 1861. They went to housekeeping
on Doris Row, which was on Locust near Sixth Street. A daughter, Mary,
was born there in 1862. Isabel, the second daughter, was born two years
later.
These two children were left with their grandparents
while my mother and father left for a year of extensive travel! On their
return they built a cottage on Glendale and Holmes Avenue. Nina and William
Nisbet were born there. Then in 1867 father bought the big house previously
described, and the family moved in 1869. It was here where the five other
children were born – Edmund Orville, Leonard, Jr., and I were born;
also a stillborn child, and Claude Levering in 1880.
Mother was still nursing Leonard, seventeen months
old, when I was born. Thus the stamp of being a delicate child followed
me through life. (Reading novels of Victorian days I found that one child
of a large family was usually stamped “the delicate one”.)
Well, here is the delicate one, living in fair luxury, good health and
comfort, writing her story when eighty-seven years of age!
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